I recently posed 3 questions for you to think on.
- Who are you following?
- Who are you connecting with?
- Who are you collecting?
In the world of social media, following someone has various meanings. Of course if you are following my blog, you'll get updates of new posts. If I'm following someone on Twitter, I receive updates from that person or group. Perhaps it means that I'm interested in what they are doing. It can mean that I admire what they do, and I want to learn more about them. However for this article, consider following as in following someone while they're walking or driving. By following them, I am walking in their path, and doing what they do.
My life will mirror the life of who I am following. My pattern of speech may change, my dress and attitude will also go through changes to be more like who I am following. This can be a positive change or a negative one. Following popular culture may have me dressing in low-cut tops, tight bottoms and not having a concern for how my actions affect those around me. Following my neighbors may lead to a "keeping up with the Jones's" attitude. My goals will revolve around making my home a show place, traveling to the "in" restaurants and vacation destinations. If I find myself following current political leaders, I will begin to stop believing in the sanctity of marriage and the home, allowing humanistic views to influence my every choice. However if I look to find a positive mentor and example to follow, my life will take a different course.
According to dictionary.com, a mentor is a wise or trusted adviser or guide. A mentor can be someone we follow to learn from. King Rehoboam had a great set of mentors in I Kings 12. These elders had stood before his father, the wise King Solomon and provided good, sound advice (vs. 6). However King Rehoboam chose to follow his peers, young men who had grown up with him. We can look at others in the Bible as well as examples of good mentoring: Barnabas and Paul, Paul and Timothy, Naomi and Ruth, Elijah and Elisha, Moses and Joshua, Deborah and Barak. Older women are to be mentors for younger women in the local church (Titus 2). The worthy woman of Proverbs 31 shows an ideal woman.
Do you have a good Christian to follow in your daily walk? I have been blessed by godly Christian parents who gave me examples to follow. There have been people along the way whom I can look up to, admire and follow as well. Paul in I Corinthians 11:1 said "Imitate me, just as I also imitate Christ." Again in Ephesians 5:1 "Therefore be imitators of God as dear children." The one we are to ultimately follow is Christ.
In my business, I have women who have been extremely successful, and if I follow their examples, I know that success can be mine as well. In following godly women by modeling their love of their husbands and love of their children (Titus 2:4) I can grow more successful as a better wife and mother. However, following Christ above all others will give me rewards above anything I could ever imagine (Ephesians 3:20). Because I know that ultimate success is living my life and going to heaven following Christ is my highest priority.